Wednesday, October 27, 2010

"Cab drivers are living proof that practice does not make perfect." (--Howard Ogden)


Well, I've been putting off posting sketches, because they always turn out looking so gosh-darned awful when I can't scan them, but it's about time I post something, oui!? I'm still on the road and playing with paint when I can.


I'm having fun going through all the fashion catalogues that swarm our mailbox this time of year, and playing around with yupo again.



 It really is a good exercise using that stuff--it keeps me from being too rigid, because it's just so uncontrollable.
 So, here you are--dreary backgrounds and all, since they're not scanned. (And I know, I know...I DID use the white balance, believe it or not. Sigh.) A photographer I am so NOT...

Happy almost-Halloween, all!

"Practice is everything; this is often misquoted as 'Practice makes perfect.'" (--Periander)

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

"A sister is a little bit of childhood that can never be lost." (-Marion C. Garretty)

Today was a bittersweet one for me. I'm back in New York City briefly, for an Open House event I have to attend tomorrow, and my sister Claudia came to join me! I was so excited to spend this time with her.
We decided to head to the TKTS box office in Times Square to see if we could get tickets for any Broadway shows, and while the first play we asked about wasn't available tonight, we WERE able to get tickets for "Driving Miss Daisy," with Vanessa Redgrave and James Earl Jones! The debut is not really until October 25th, but we got advance tickets for today's performance.

So after exclaiming in delight that we were lucky enough to do so, we decided to have a leisurely dinner at B Smith's restaurant nearby, and we sat and had some wine and just talked forever, and ate good food until it was time to go and see the play.

The play was terrific, and very touching with those two icons. Afterwords, we walked back to the hotel where I'm staying for this leg of the trip, and Claudia drove back home to NJ. I felt really sad to think about how we used to do this kind of thing all the time growing up, but now that we all live so far apart, it really is rare for us to spend this kind of time together, and I will cherish the memories of a special time together with her.

After tomorrow evening's event in the city, I'll take the train from Penn Station to Princeton. Friday is a Grad Fair I'll attend in Princeton, and then I'll fly home from trip #2 on Saturday. This second trip of mine has lasted from Sept 30th. I'll be home one day and then I head out again for a short trip. In the meantime, I have memories from this trip that will last me a lifetime.
Claudia is facing her mastectomy in mid-November, so I'm glad we could have this time to visit and celebrate that at least her chemo treatments are done for now.
Thanks a million, Claudia! It was great seeing you.
"Brothers and sisters are as close as hands and feet." (--Vietnamese proverb)





Friday, October 8, 2010

70, 56, 35

Well, guess whose birthday I share on the 9th?
Happy Birthday, John and Sean.

56 big ones here.

"Cin-cin!"

(photo Everett Collection/Rex Features)

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Mark Twain's Nook Farm Home

After a week of being holed up in a hotel for a Land Trust Alliance conference, today I went out in search of Mark Twain's 19-room mansion in Hartford, Connecticut. Samuel Clemens lived happily in this house with his family, from 1874 until 1891, when he was forced to leave because of financial difficulties.

Here was one more opportunity for me in my job to see a place I'd always wanted to see!
Twain loved his home, "Nook Farm." He wrote that these years spent with his family in this home were his happiest:
"To us, our house...had a heart, a soul, and eyes to see us with; and approvals and solicitudes and deep sympathies; it was of us, and we were in its confidence and lived in its grace and in the peace of its benedictions."

Unfortunately, no photos were permitted inside the house, but above is a photo from the internet of Twain sitting and writing in his famous bed. Today, when I saw it up close and in person, I have to admit I was in awe of the fact that everywhere I stood, Twain himself had stood, years ago.
His ornate Victorian bed was shipped to this home from Venice, and he ultimately died in this bed: he used to sit with his back to the footboard, and placed the pillows at that end of the bed, so that when he was upright in bed, he could face the expensive headboard in front of him! I marveled that I was seeing it all in person.


The house is huge: an elaborate interior staircase winds up to a third floor where Twain had his famous study/billiard room, complete with the large pool table today.
Since he lived there before central heating, there were fireplaces in every room, and intricate mantels above each of them. On the second floor, in the sitting room, the docent told us that Clemens would sit with his children in the evenings, and he would incorporate the objects resting on the mantelpiece, in the order of their appearance, into stories each night, but those stories were different every night.

The outdoor porches permit wonderful views of the hillside. Twain situated his house on this lot so that the servants' quarters actually faced the street, and the front of the house was "backwards," so that the family would have more privacy, and the views were more attractive from that side of the house.

I love Twain's writing: and outside of Ralph Waldo Emerson, I think he has the best quotations of anyone I've ever known. I always knew he had a sad life, and towards the end of his life, when he'd lost his wife, and three of his four children, he went through a "dark" phase, and his writing changed quite a bit.
But it was in this house that he wrote The Adventures of Tom Sawyer, Life on the Mississippi, The Prince and the Pauper, A Connecticut Yankee in King Arthur's Court, and The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn.
I spent part of today in a place that housed a man who came to change the face of American literature.
"Let us endeavor so to live that when we come to die, even the undertaker will be sorry." (--Mark Twain)